I too have read those articles titled "the ten things you can do in bed that will drive your man wild". I'm not saying it was all wrong but it missed the mark (so to speak). Let me tell all the women out there how to be hot in bed: Oral sex I mean like you liked doing it, AND the squeeze box or kegles or as we called it when I was a teen the magic pussy. Oh yeah, one other thing; make believe you are enjoying everything your man does and that you do.

Somehow I suspect most women know this but only feel it's necessary to get their man not to keep him.

Momma's got a squeeze box, daddy never sleeps at night...

The Helen Gurley Brown article reminds me fondly of the days when, as she put it, women were not "sex objects, but sex subjects. Men were the objects." You younger guys can have no idea of the joys available to those of us who were actively involved in the game before the days of "feminism."

I will say, anent the "Squeeze Box," that there can be a fine line between squeezing and vaginismus. An astonishing (and increasing) number of young women are in truth afraid of penetration and unconsciously resist it.